I cant stand it ...

You can't let anyone judge you. You just need to stay focused on your health and happiness. Don't let anyone bring you down. Sounds like she is making you depressed maybe you could stay with friends if it gets too bad.

Parents are often unaware of what they are doing and often deny what they don't understand. Especially if parents have control issues, and it sounds like she does have a control issue.
I believe in the expression, "turnabout is fair play." if there is something you want her to change, point it out with her.
If she doesnt see how she is treating you, carry a note book or such and keep a tally of how many times she does this.
If you show her proof: she cant deny it.
At the same time: parents are often at their wits end as well.
Don't let parents get you down.
You'll make it through, you have my support.

My mom still tells me things like this. I have learned to flat out tell her that when she brings up things like that I will not talk to her. It may help to record her and show her at a time she is not irate. All I can tell you is that you are beautiful and to never let anyone else's words define how you feel about you. Those words, those hurtful words...they really define those saying them. Not you. It gets so much easier and so much better. I promise <3

This is all true I hope all these words of encouragement help you through. We are all here to support you.

:( No Mother should say any such thing to a child. OR to anyone. Sounds like she needs some help. Don't blame yourself because of her actions. Tell her you should get counceling together. I hope the best for you.

Maybe she is crying out for help by doing this. I hope you can take Dill 07 advice and get counseling together. Take Care.

So you live at home with her? is there anywhere you could safely go but you need to tell her your going though. Maybe sit down with her and talk about how your feeling over what she is saying. I used to have horrible problems with my mom. She wouldnt even look at me or talk to me. Finally i had to open up and tell her everything. now we get along amazing. it took me alot of years though. I was acting pretty crappy towards her and my dad but i really just needed their support. Is that like your situation? You guys fight and she doesn tlisten?